Today Oldest Muffin decides she is not going to wear the outfit I picked out, jeans, red cable knit sweater and her red sparkly shoes. Why you ask? "Because jeans do not look good with those shoes" (sweetie they are red sparkly shoes they don't look good with anything.)
I bribed her with a necklace and perfume and that seems to get her dressed and in a better mood. I can't wait for her to be a teenager, I see me in her.